So you think you are a “nice guy”. You know that girls really do respond to guys that act and talk the way they want to be treated. Nice guys do get the occasional flirt or kiss from beautiful women, but it is not a consistent and ongoing occurrence. That does not mean that you are incapable of getting a “real” girlfriend. In fact, you just need to learn some key signs that the girl you are interested in likes you, instead of just noticing all of them.
The fact is that not all girls are attracted to nice guys. In fact, some girls would rather have a rough and tumble guy that can take care of himself. So, what gifts to buy if you are one of these girls? Keep in mind that you do not have to spend a fortune to impress a girl. Here are some great ideas that will help you show her that you are an excellent choice for a long lasting relationship:
– Do not be a cheapie. Girls will think highly of you if you have something that is uniquely yours. Think about it – if you bought a brand new vehicle, would you drive it even if the car dealer gave you a really low price? Of course not. You would think that you got a really good deal, and be proud of yourself for having the guts to stand up for yourself.
– Try to do something nice for her on a regular basis. Most girls do not appreciate a total gift of chocolate, cosmetics, or flowers every week. So, while it is true that you can buy her presents once a year or less, when you really like her, do something nice for her on a regular basis. It will make her feel special and you will become more appreciated.
– If you have a hobby that often makes you happy, share it with her. Most girls are happy to be shown a thing or two that they enjoy doing. While some hobbies are only nice for one time, other hobbies get regular “treats” from girls, so if you can make her happy by showing her your favorite hobby, you become a nice guy who is appreciated. Even guys who do not have a hobby often tend to be nice, if they just try to help the girl in question, without being intrusive.
– Try to remember that even though you are not really that into her, she still wants to be around you. This is true even if you are dating another girl. Girls have the ability to fall in love faster than most guys. They usually see this as an instant attraction, while guys usually take a bit longer. So, even if you are not currently seeing anyone, do not pass her up. She will still want to be around you, because you are a nice guy.